Compliments and Criticisms: Perceived Impact on Body Image among Men with Diverse Sexual Orientations

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This study aimed to examine the perceived impact of positive and negative comments about physical appearance made by romantic partners, and to compare these effects between men with dominant and non-dominant sexual orientations. Forty two young men participated in a structured interview assessing the verbal and nonverbal messages they had received about their bodies and how these influenced their self-image. Using qualitative content analysis, categories of positive and negative comments and their perceived effects were identified. Positive messages were associated with greater confidence, body acceptance, motivation for self-care, and increased comfort in sexual interactions. Negative comments were linked to shame, insecurity, body dissatisfaction, and changes in lifestyle or grooming habits. Differences emerged between groups in both the types of comments reported and how their impact was interpreted. These findings highlight the relevance of incorporating sexual diversity into research on body image and intimate relationships.

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body image , sexual diversity , romantic relationships , communication , dissatisfaction

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